Astrology, passion and destiny.

  Lupita spent days and nights in a therapeutic reclining bed in her bedroom. More than ninety years old, her eyes no longer distinguished a shape. Her only daughter-in-law was in charge of her care. I met Lupita many years before, in that same old house in Mixcoac, south of Mexico City, when my Mom attended her astrology mentoring and she use to take me with her. Upon opening that huge entrance gate you could see the garden, to which all the rooms converged. We were welcomed in her studio, to the right and upstairs; stairs that I liked to climb jumping. Her home was chilly, with very high walls and large beams on the tall ceiling. We entered through the split doors with tall windows and curtains did not let in much light in. The shelves around, made of dark wood and full of old books, with that special smell difficult to describe, had backs of faded colors and some had letters in gold. On the walls old paintings and pictures with images full of symbols, mysterious and interesting...

A GREAT LESSON. Now let me tell you another amazing lesson I learned with her as the roles reversed; my mother as my companion and me as the disciple.  We arrived early to the mentoring session. As usual, I sat in the chair near the entrance door on the side of the bed, my mother sat on Lupita's bed.  The teacher started a new topic and began explaining how important thoughts are, because thoughts are energy, and such energy creates the reality. She said “…we live today what we were thinking yesterday”.  She described how when we think something repeatedly, we manifest it in our daily lives and create everything that resonates with such idea. There is no filter, if we think either constructive or destructive, the energy will follow accordingly. Many times we do not have a clear intention, we may think we are doing “well” but our real intention is just a selfish wish hence it is extremely important that our thoughts are worthy and correct in accordance to the universal law...

IN SEARCH OF FREEDOM              Today I understand life as an evolution, we are the actors of our own evolution, under the script of a strict mathematical order, therefore so many things we feel, we live and do at certain ages, are implicit in that order. As far as my 21 years allowed, my need to launch myself and conquer of myself was not an option, it was within of the natural order of evolution.        We may know it or not, accept it or resist understanding it, but life was there before us and will remain there after us, with their times, with their rules. Maturity is part of evolution and requires cutting comfortable ties, if we don't cut such ties, life will do it for us, because revealing our unique essence, our individuality, is the only way. Each stage of growth entails some destruction, destruction of what we thought we were, cutting off a relationship, a way of life. It place...

I continued studying Astrology on my own. To resume from the beginning, I decided to calculate and draw my own astral map chart. I looked for my birth time in my certificate and started with the numbers on record. A decisive surprise, a regret died inside me and a certainty was born. My mother told me that it was of ascending Aries, and the new calculation, threw Pisces. Two signs of very different characteristics. During the time I believed it was from Aries, I came to think that I was completely traumatized because I couldn't be as active, nor as intrepid as an Aries, but when I realized that there was an error in the first calculation, I was able to reconcile with my Pisces ascending sign of a calmer and more sensitive nature. What was the mistake?  To trust her memory. My mother did not verify my birth time from my birth record, she trusted her memory, however, I was her ninth birth and obviously she wasn’t sure. I am positive such unintended error was an important part of my d...

  "Nothing shall trouble you, Nothing shall fright you, Everything goes by God never quits. ” Saint Teresa de Avila. Nothing shall bother you ... my father recited me when some setback in life reached me. My youth was offended by so much calm and my childish ignorance was frightened, while walking from mute to mute, looking for my place. He was a strong, bohemian, philosopher man. I used to be lulled with his readings that other parents may have avoided. About to sleep, his voice used to decipher texts of some interesting book by personal development, philosophy or spirituality. Now I think it was his way of giving me internal foundations for the future.  Among many, The Third Eye by Lobsang Rampa, with his signature stamped in 1967, which he used to sign at the end of every reading, remains in my bookcase as psycho-emotional aliment, with my signature below, dated twenty-one years later.  In open spaces he used to whistle a special tune to call us, which gave him his nic...

Neptune, god of the oceans, who misleads, dilutes, confuses, disperses and exercises such influence that can lead us to deception, under this influence, in aspect with Uranus, regent of Astrology, in house VII of my astral map, I was unfaithful to myself and to Astrology. I was falling prey to the feminine cultural conditioning that makes us believe that love is seemingly less so that the partner does not feel less, an absurd cultural and patriarchal alignment. I refrained from studying and practicing so that the father of my children dedicated to Astrology, after years of sharing it with him. But I didn't give up my eagerness for knowledge and education. During those years I prepared myself as a Montessori assistant, which complements my astrological study. The psychological training it entails and the inherent knowledge of the development stages in the human being, gave me the understanding of the planetary energies and how these operate, but now from another trench. There was a ...

  A new stage awaited me, in a span of two and a half years I was a mother, twice again, of a Sun in Pisces and a Sun in Leo. The little Sun in Aries, had already grown, became a teenager and would be on the verge of death. At this time was hitting bottom and would come back apologizing to the jealous astrology.  This astrological aspect makes us mature, it happens between the twenty-nine years and half and thirty-one and a half, the famous, and often feared, "Return of Saturn", Chronos in Greek mythology, lord of time, who showing us our own reality obliges us to take responsibility for our actions and their consequences and gives us the harvest of the sown with our commitment, effort and discipline.  During this time I had to face the fact that the economic security that my job at the bank offered me wasn't enough to submit to its demands. It was not for me to bow my head and submissively accept the ideology of “so much you have, so much you are worth” that intensified ...

  Between bottles and lullabies, I discovered that I was under the influence of the most feared square off, the one who kidnaps and forces to live in hell, submits to pain, destroys and brings you back to birth, the god of the underworld: Pluto, was square to himself (he had traveled ninety degrees in the zodiac, from his position at the time of my birth) on my astral map. Willing to do his job, this aspect destroyed every sense of attachment I could feel, ideas, ways of life, relationships and the possible death of my oldest son. It is one of the aspects that all people go through between thirty-four and approximately thirty-eight years, specific situations depend on the awareness of each person, their astral maps and the influences that may be making other planets.  In a perfect gear, I found in the bookcase of the house a book from alcoholic anonymous, that my partner kept. The content changed my life, in its pages explains the stages a family goes through with an alcoholic...

  Saturn also builds, offers the energy necessary to structure, but it also requires commitment, loyalty, discipline and perseverance, without any of these elements; we cannot be prepared to take opportunities.  While I was living this separation, I prepared and started my first Astrology group class, which I embraced with all my heart. I only had two students, the father of a close friend and an orchestra director.  Ah Astrology! It takes a lot of love to stay by her side, surrender to its call and overcome your own fears. I felt as innocuous as anyone who starts something new for the first time, I was afraid of not being able to, I felt compelled taking that step and I also fondled uncertainty and desire to run to the other side. The night before the first class, I did a special meditation, lit an incense and a candle, I turned off the lights, sat down facing the candle light and closed my eyes. When I opened my eyes I could see perfectly outlined with the wax that drai...